Chapter 253: Where I am reminding myself metaphorically not to do stuff which is not my FIRE…

Are you familiar with the theory of a bottle neck?
In a nut shell: at any point in time there is only one single bottle neck.
Bottle neck = Problem.
In other worlds: At any point in time you, me, this guy, this girl, anyone have only one single problem. Never two.
How so?
There is always one problem, which if left unsolved makes all other problems obsolete.
Example?
You wake up in the morning, too late for an important meeting, very hungry and your house is on fire.
How many problems do you have?
Three? Too late, hungry, fire? Really? NO! ONE! Your freaking house is on fire.

A questions:
What is your FIRE?
And not less important one: What is my freaking fire? How about to stop attending to the needs of people who don’t recognize that I have never been and never will be their fire! 🙂

Now it is said! And please yell at me shall I spend another second writing about it!

P.S. For start up readers. Your single most important fire is SALES. Always. Fix it 🙂

Chapter 252: The Time After is never the same as The Time Before…

“There is always Before and After…
Before – is the time before your amazing dream.
After – is the time after.
The Time After is never the same as The Time Before.
Neither are you… You are a different You, After…” – Coco Tomātl

We all have a dream which changes us, at least once.

She woke up with a smile on her face.
She felt, this smile is there to stay. Like … forever. 🙂

She had the most amazing dream,
Feeling unconditionally in love with another human being,
While at the same time being loved back unconditionally.

Unconditional love is difficult to describe in words,
As for any description lacks every depth.
Unconditional love has to be felt.

Unconditional love is a right of passage.
Once enveloped into this love, dissolved in it,
Out of a sudden she knew on a cellular level that
She was worthy of all the happiness in the world, of all the success in the world, of all the love in the world.

“Love is amazing”, – she thought. “And we have not even scratched the surface. It is a tremendous power, a power which makes the very existence of fear obsolete. Not impossible – but obsolete!”

“Before and After”, – she thought. “Before I was afraid. Today I am loved unconditionally. Today I am unconditionally in love!”

“Love, we mostly know”, – she thought, – “is a little guess in comparison to this unconditional all-present knowledge of being a gorgeous, happy, loved and blessed human being.”

Right of passage. Unconditional love is a right of passage.

Chapter 251: Rain brings me back to who I am…

It is raining for the past 7 days.
And I feel that the rain washes away, once again …
Same old confusion…
About who I really am.

That’s why I have decided to start my day with the blog which means a world to me.
Although, prior to do that, I have checked my emails. 🙂

It is a fact that no matter how clear we see things, any difficult situation on our path to our goal acts like a heavy rain, washing away our road map. Confused – we are picking up the trail of someone else, someone who screams the loudest 🙂

My purpose is to help people discovering their True Self, start living fully and daring greatly. Albeit through getting fit, through setting up successful fashion business, through shamanic work or all three together. This is my trail, my road map carved in stone.

At the end of the day – it is all about dealing with fear, as for fear is the single power separating us from anything we want and everything we need.

Chapter 250: All bags you watch – are yours!

– I know exactly how you feel, Jane. – Coco and I are running through the rice fields of Minhang.
– You do? – Stupid question. She always does!
– Not sure it still happens anywhere nowadays; but once upon a time, in another life, where people were less frightened, someone could ask you to watch their bag for a minute.
– What do you mean?
– I know, it sounds unbelievable, but someone at the train station or on the beach could ask you to watch over their bags for a minute until they are back…
– And?
– Well, you would agree …
– Really?
– Yes, you would agree as it was very common, and some times you would spend ages watching over their bag. People would get into some kind of time trouble and what supposed to be few minutes would turn into three hours or half a day…
– This is terrible!
– It feels terrible, yes. You are standing there, with some irrelevant bags of some person you do not even know… And … you can’t leave. Your sense of responsibility, your honesty, your integrity keeps you there. And at the same time your inner Deserve It Troll is trolling about you being a stupid idiot, saying something around the lines that you should not have accepted the bags in the first place, that you always want to be nice to people and people take advantage of you, blah blah blah… Yeah! Poor you.
– Why are you telling me this story Coco?
– Because I need you to understand that there is another way.
– What way? Not accepting any bags?
– This is not the way. We accept a lot of different bags in our life. The trick is to understand that once you have accepted them – they are YOURS. So rather than standing around, waiting for someone to relieve your pain – put your bag on your shoulder and walk through your life. Most of the time those bags are not heavy anyway. And who knows what great thing may be inside!
– I do not understand…
Stop dramatizing people not meeting your expectations! By doing so you resemble a person watching over someone’s bag on the train station. Years have passed, the bag owner went to the Moon and back, while you are still waiting. Move! Laugh! Be grateful to live and have some bags to carry!
 

Chapter 246: If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.

What does it really mean “build a door”? It means start providing value to people around you in the area where you are looking for an opportunity. Fitness Fun Shanghai is a door. And so, following Coco’s advice I am building a lot of doors 🙂

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Chapter 245: Most hobbies don’t last longer than 7 years. Businesses do.

Turning hobby into business and building business out of hobby are two different concepts. I have started with the first. Failed dramatically and through this failure learned how to do the second.

Focus on building a business rather than doing your hobby. Most people I know who turned their hobby into business ended up enslaved by their hobby, ended up creating a job for themselves rather than a business which can be sold. Most hobbies don’t last longer then 7 years. Businesses do.

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Chapter 244: Take all decisions about your life by yourself, consciously.

Take all decisions about your life by yourself, consciously. In my personal life – every time I have not made a clear decision, somebody else did it for me. Mostly to my small or great disadvantage.

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Chapter 242: Last Black Hole of Negativity – FIRED!

 

Coco has told me like billion light years ago to fire all Black Holes of Negativity, all customers who create a mess and suck everybody into this mess. People who are chronically disappointed about each and every Fart of Nature and at the same time do not move a finger to make their personal cause grow.

Coco emphasized that serving these people will mean that I will not have time great projects, Perfect Tights, The Art of Fat War, Wild Cat Fashion Business and other causes which really really really have huge impact on people’s lives.

I can’t believe it right now. Sitting here writing these words, that even after extremely clear instructions, I have spent another two years putting much effort into turning Black Holes of Negativity into something positive and prosperous. Now, today I am very sorry for this time and I clearly see that trying to change negative people into positive people is like trying to reanimate a person who did passed away three days ago. I don’t have a better comparison.

Anyway the last one has been fired. Freedom! Only Dream Customers remained. This is a mile stone of a HUGE importance.

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Chapter 241: Matrix – we are all in it … :-)

Matrix – we are all in it.
We are all having our own control unit.

It is better if you are under control.
Because most likely – you wont do anything greater.

Matrix – we are all in it.
We are all having our own control unit.

Do you think you are losing your mind?
It’s not you. It’s your control unit.

Do you think I am talking $hit?
It’s not you. It’s your control unit.

Do you think you are not good enough?
It’s not you. It’s your control unit.

Matrix – we are all in it.
We are all having our own control unit.

It is better if you are under control.
Because most likely – you wont do anything greater.

If you follow your heart, if you open your soul.
We will meet in the fields – where there is no control.

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