Chapter 246: If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.

What does it really mean “build a door”? It means start providing value to people around you in the area where you are looking for an opportunity. Fitness Fun Shanghai is a door. And so, following Coco’s advice I am building a lot of doors 🙂

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Chapter 245: Most hobbies don’t last longer than 7 years. Businesses do.

Turning hobby into business and building business out of hobby are two different concepts. I have started with the first. Failed dramatically and through this failure learned how to do the second.

Focus on building a business rather than doing your hobby. Most people I know who turned their hobby into business ended up enslaved by their hobby, ended up creating a job for themselves rather than a business which can be sold. Most hobbies don’t last longer then 7 years. Businesses do.

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Chapter 244: Take all decisions about your life by yourself, consciously.

Take all decisions about your life by yourself, consciously. In my personal life – every time I have not made a clear decision, somebody else did it for me. Mostly to my small or great disadvantage.

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Chapter 242: Last Black Hole of Negativity – FIRED!

 

Coco has told me like billion light years ago to fire all Black Holes of Negativity, all customers who create a mess and suck everybody into this mess. People who are chronically disappointed about each and every Fart of Nature and at the same time do not move a finger to make their personal cause grow.

Coco emphasized that serving these people will mean that I will not have time great projects, Perfect Tights, The Art of Fat War, Wild Cat Fashion Business and other causes which really really really have huge impact on people’s lives.

I can’t believe it right now. Sitting here writing these words, that even after extremely clear instructions, I have spent another two years putting much effort into turning Black Holes of Negativity into something positive and prosperous. Now, today I am very sorry for this time and I clearly see that trying to change negative people into positive people is like trying to reanimate a person who did passed away three days ago. I don’t have a better comparison.

Anyway the last one has been fired. Freedom! Only Dream Customers remained. This is a mile stone of a HUGE importance.

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Chapter 240: How Google Chrome did open my eyes and about the fact that doing same old $hit results in same old $hit.

Albert Einstein said: “Definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Looking back on past 6 years of work I can say that I have been quite insane. I am extremely grateful to Coco that she pulled me out.
I would continue working with not performing employees, knowing for sure that they will change under my professional guidance. Time would pass and the only thing changing would be increasing amount of my brain they would be eating up on daily basis.
I would continue working with not performing suppliers, hoping that next delivery will be great. No need to say that nothing great came out of this noble hope.
Today I have exchanged Firefox for Google Chrome on my computer. For past two years I thought my computer is extremely slow because of A, B and C reasons. I used to pull out my hair this is how slow it was! 99% of my work is online right now; I would be sitting waiting for this little circle to turn around 100 times till a page would load.
And it was not my computer after all. Exchanging the browser made all my internet problems disappear in a second.
For each and every not performing browser – there is a performing one. No need to wait too long before exchanging the slow one for a quick one. Change of methods and ways to get things done is sane.

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Chapter 238: We all do know how it feels when we are a freaking lonely person at home

We all do know how it feels when we are a freaking lonely person at home.
We all do know how it feels when we are surrounded by a crowd but alone.
We may have all those people around, we smile, take showers, even play chess.
And our friends and people around don’t even wither that we are mess.

But guess… Just guess… What’s next?
This loneliness and brokenness will pass!

It is neither a part of me, nor is it a part of you.
So drop it, drop it, drop it now!
No matter freaking how! Just Drop it now!

You think your noble suffering’s right. Forgetting that your life is quite ok.
There are people on this Mother Earth who didn’t just survive pass today.
There are people missing limbs!
There are people tortured to death.
They have not chosen this type of life.
They would love to exchange yours for theirs…

Are you ready for exchange right now?
If you are not, than drop it, drop it, drop it,
No matter how…

It is neither a part of me, nor is it a part of you.
So drop it drop it drop it now!
No matter freaking how! Just Drop it now!

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Chapter 237: Unstoppable chick – that’s me!

Have I mentioned recently that I am freaking unstoppable? No? Ok. Now for the records: I am unstoppable. Unstoppable chick – that’s me!

Have spent the whole day today setting up our Fitness Fun Shanghai Initiative. First what is Fitness Fun Shanghai? This is the inspirational cause, motivating all chicks and dudes around Shanghai and Shanghai Lovers to drop everything they are doing right now, grab their fitness gear and go exercising, go get fit and happy! (By the way, I mentioned Shanghai Lovers, right? What does it mean? Explaining: once lived in Shanghai – forever Shanghai Lover! No other way possible!). So today Fitness Fun Shanghai came to life. How exciting is that!

And now I am going to work the rest of the day on Perfect Tights partnerships. Can’t say too much, but one huge market, who starts with R and ends with A is interested. BTW the huge market which starts with T and ends with D, yes, yes, yes, that’s you my dear friend whose name starts with M and ends with A 🙂 Lots of love from Coco Tomātl Shanghai Headquarters and thank you for your passionate work!

Hugs, Jane Rene

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Chapter 236: Few observations about depression.

After two years of blogging and careful observation I can state firmly:
1) Each and every time I am on the verge of a MAJOR break through – I get depressed for a couple of days.
2) Each and every time I need to start doing something I am afraid of – I get depressed for a couple of days, or I get a cold, or I pull a muscle, or…
3) Many times when I achieve something incredible and just need to follow up to make it sure, to write it in stone – I get depressed and often [email protected] up my result, causing opportunity loss. (Please note: In the most stupid and incredible way!!)

In the Art of Fat War Coco defined three enemies we are fighting against on daily basis. Coco mentioned on several occasions that we are fighting these enemies in all areas of our life, not only in health and fitness. I did not pay much attention to this statement. But I do now. Why? Because depression is the weapon these three fellows are using on me the most, trying to sabotage everything I do. Although, I have to say that sabotaging became more difficult: I exercise regularly, I don’t drink alcohol and I don’t smoke. Still these three fellows are very much engaged in screwing with my opportunities.

I work with a lot of women right now who are on their way to discover their True Self. Most of them are losing weight. Few of them have started working on their financial independence goal, launching new business projects. All women showing the very same symptoms:

1) Depression just before major break through.
2) Depression when afraid doing a new thing.
3) Sabotaging an opportunity once got it into hands.

Can you relate to that in any way? Think about the last time you were depressed and engaged into some type of negative self talk. Was it prior to any major break through? Was it before doing something new (which you are silently afraid of doing)? Was it just after you have got something great done, like organizing a course, inviting people, all people joined, paid, came. You have even done the first session and then never told the group when the second session takes place?

If you are interested in the phenomenon of depression same way I am – watch four videos I have up-loaded below. These videos are describing three core enemies we are dealing with on daily basis. We may be as philosophical as our free time allows us, but we can’t change the fact that these three voices are nagging on us daily. And the difference between success and failure lies in our ability to silence these voices. We can silence them aggressively; we can silence them with love, anything that works would do. Sports works fantastically. Any regular exercise silences these beasts. Cutting out alcohol and cigarettes weakens these voices tremendously. Love, real love shuts them down. I am talking real love here. Not the one “why is he not calling?” type of compulsiveness.

This article is a block-letter-reminder for me to keep my eyes on the price and to know that any type of depression, sadness or whatever crawls up and paralyses me – is not me. I am pure joy. That’s it.

Enjoy the videos and let me know what you think, do you know the beasts?

Chapter 7: Know Yourself Know Your Enemy

Chapter 8: Princess of Boredom

Chapter 9: Sneaky-Deserve-It-Troll

Chapter 10: Nasty-IT-Not-Good-Enough

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